What is Your Flirting Style

There are so many flirting ways out there. There are as many as the people in these worlds. Everyone flirts in a way they know best. The only thing that remains constant in flirting is the rules. I guess this is what makes it more interesting and fun. The fact that, you can flirt the way you know how, different from the next guy and still get the same results. Sometimes your flirting style could be so different but you could still get the same results.  For example, there are people who will never make the first move and there are some who likes to make the first move. To them making the first move is sexy. The men especially like making the first move. They naturally like to chase after women and making the first flirting move on them is their own way of flirting. On the other hand there are some women who really like to make the first move. So is your flirting way making the first move?

When you are talking to someone, what do you do with your eyes? Do you bat your eyes while talking to the person and hope beyond hope that they will notice your eye movement and make some kind of move on you? That is your flirting style. You use your eyes to flirt with the people around you. You are on the right track because the eyes are very important. How do you act when you are around someone you want to flirt with? Do you suddenly become playful, confident, sexy or intelligent? Is this the time when you try to recall what you read somewhere so that the person you intend to flirt with will think of you as a bright person? If so that is your flirting style, if it works for you well and good, if it doesnt’t, you might only need to perfect it, it is supposed to work.

When you intend to flirt, what are you more likely to do, to throw a compliment at the person about something they have put on or to give them a compliment about their looks? Which ever you do, that is your flirting way. Whether you want to tell a woman you like her hair, eyes or lips that is your choice and if it works for that is your flirting style and you should stick to it. If you are a woman on the other hand you also like to give a man compliments go right ahead and do it, do not feel shy about it. Compliments have always been known to start people talking and it could just start the two of you talking and who knows, it could be a start of something beautiful and nice.

Do you smile to the person you intend to flirt with in a welcoming way. That is, are you smiling at the person in a way to suggest that you would like for them to move over to where you are. That is your flirting way. Smiles just like the eyes are very inviting. If this is not your style, perhaps you should try it out and see how many people you will pull to your side with a simple smile on your face.

Francis K. Githinji