*** The question from a reader:
Dear Joseph,
I am a student and I wanted to know how to meet the girls in
the most crucial areas with many girls. here are situations before: the disco where music is so strong, where there are too many people with little or no space to move, and the girls are dancing with oneself, the main idea is that it is very difficult and almost Needless to start a conversation in these areas. How do I go about it?
Second: As meeting girls who are walking along the road
maybe going somewhere.As am in school, as meeting a girl who is walking down maybe his dormitory or somewhere else. point is where Im from people do this to women all the time.But here in America, its almost considered strange bcos pop out of nowhere and shes not expecting.
Finally, what to do when a girl tells you who has a
boyfriend?If leave its Alliant or continue your business on
always her. what happens if you are totally in love with her boyfriend, how do you win?
--DFX
*** My reply:
Okay, I think I will try to deal with each question in order ...
First, discos are very difficult venues.If youre not
particularly indicated for nightlife party-style, these places will be a little daunting. And even if they are predisposed to this kind of pick up, youll still have to deal with a lot of competition from other men.
That said, its not impossible to meet women in nightclubs.But you must be a little more aggressive than other fora and outgoing.
First off, when Im in a club, tend to like to hang
outdoor areas where I can communicate with others easier. Patios and right outside the Club can be good for this. most Club will have some form of open area, where they can hang out--especially places like New York and Los Angeles, where youre not allowed to smoke inside.
Dance can also be very effective.If you like to dance, go out there and try to dance with women who are dancing alone. If they are not in it, move. If they are, its time PLAY!=)
Also, remember the time when you are going to the club.
Usually, later gets, its easy to pick up a girl
(this is because as you arrive later, people are more pre-disposed to "hook up" because of alcohal, despair, boredom, etc..).
Secondly, the women of approach on the road takes a bit of subtlety. In America, people tend to be a little more private than in other
parts of the world. my best advice in this sense is actually
follow the girl for awhile and see where it is going.If it stops
largo to a coffee or a bus or whatever, this is the time
for his approach!If it appears that youre someplace you cannot
follow it in (such as his house/dormitory,) then you can take and try to approach his cold. But make it a quick approach and include a time constraint ("I know you are on
get your way somewhere, this will only take a second ... "), his number how fast you can then pass.
Finally, when it comes to what "boy", which is a matter of personal taste. Some guys dont want to mess with that other
Dont care ... the thing is, most women are not committing to their boyfriends, so there is no bigger than an obstacle, as you might think.
The important thing to do in this situation is to try to "read"
woman. sometimes, a girl will tell you that she has a boyfriend when she really not because he wants to reject politely (and sometimes really have a boyfriend and wants to remain
faithful to him). If this is the case, you must watch
signals that youre giving to see if it actually is in you or not.
If a woman like you and are, in fact, in her, she will usually with-keep the fact that she has a boyfriend. and if you take it, she wants to take the initiative and "his blowing away his feet" so that you wont have to feel guilty about cheating on him. so when is the case, its time to pump the Siberian on your pick up.
Wishing you success!
Joseph Matthews
Joseph Matthews is http://www.artofapproaching.com webmaster and has just released its comprehensive guide on how to overcome the fear of rejection and meet and date on tons of beautiful women. you can check out his site here--Woman Meet.
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