A woman will flirt with anybody in the world as long as other people are looking on.All women flirt, but some are restrained by shyness, and others by sense. Women flirt to keep their stock high, men to get somewhere.
Women know what flirting is, and they react differently to flirting communication than they do to social communication. If you understand flirting, you can have conversations with the opposite sex and have them feeling attracted to you. If you don’t get flirting and how it works, then you will either have to become famous or be absolutely loaded to be successful with girls.
Learn how to flirt well, then do this from the start in your interactions with women to start the correct tone. Think of flirting like that of playing a game. If you start talking to a single girl and say "Hi, youre nice. You probably have a fella, right?" in a normal tone of voice, youre not flirting. On the other hand, if you say "Hi, I realize that youre probably very shy due to the fact you get no attention from men... so I thought Id come over here and pay you some attention..." its obvious that youre not being serious. This is flirting. By the way, flirting is not simply telling a girl jokes, or trying to be "cute". One of the concepts is Cocky yet Funny which is simply an excellent way of flirting and creating sexual tension with a specific kind of humour. Its so amazing to me how some men dont want to come across as gimps. Its obvious to me that they just don’t get it. So let me explain this in a different way... If you know how to speak the right way, women will respond to you from the beginning with sexual interest and attraction. When you know how to incorporate flirting in a Cocky yet Funny way, a form of adult verbal play, then you reach into a womans mind, and cause her to go into a type of emotional state. One of the keys to effective flirting is to "get it". In other words, you have to actually practice so you get a "feel" for how it works.
I think a lot of men give up when they try a cute line or technique and a woman responds by saying "No thanks." Instead of just continuing to practice more they take it personally and decide to throw in the towel. But take my word for it... once you learn how to flirt effectively and communicate in the language of adult play you not believe how well women respond to you.
Heres one of my favourite topics to use when flirting, the topic is getting engaged and being in a relationship... Bare in mind, I may have a conversation like this one with a woman that I just met five minutes earlier... Her: "I work in an office, and I get paid well" Me: "Excellent. I like that in a woman. Want to get engaged? We could buy the ring now. I need a woman with money." Her: "OK, that sounds like a plan" Me: "Mind you... do you think you can support the both of us on your income? I really want to be looked after... you know, keep an eye on the TV etc." Her: "Oh, no... I would not support you." Me: "Then the engagements off. Its over between us.” Her: "You cant break up with me! Im not even your girlfriend." Me: "Thats all the more reason."
...do you get whats going on here?
Im taking a normal conversation topic about her job and her income and redirecting the conversation in a flirtatious, Cocky & Funny way hence creating a fun mood and sexual tension (by suggesting engagement and breaking up over her not supporting me.)
If this doesnt make sense to you, then take that as a sign that you need to practice more. Try it with maybe a waitress, bar maid or fellow worker. When you ask for something and she says "Im sorry, we dont have that on the menu", just say "OK, our relationship isnt working out... Im going to have to break up with you." In fact, you can say this in just about any situation when a woman is saying something that you dont like, and its funny. When you communicate like this, youre flirting and youre initiating a different kind of communication. And as soon as the woman youre talking to "engages" you in this kind of dialogue, the Let the games begin! There are many ways to flirt, if a woman looks at you and raises one eyebrow, look back at her and do the same... only exaggerate it. Remember, women can tell straight away whether youre flirting with them or not. If you are, and youre doing it in a subtle and charming way then youll get amazing results.
Jaydiocity
