You always hear about being angry can harm you. However, your anger also affects the people who are around you as well.
Your anger hurts the people around you this is how
They need to keep their distance from you...
There are people who are concerned about you. At least most of you that is.
There is a problem. Believe it or not, there are people who love and would like to be around you. These people will think that you are someone special. However, they stay away to protect themselves from you. The thing is, you are capable of harming them, or you may just be an anti social person. And because of this they stay away for their own safety and emotional strength.
Your anger can cause the people who care about you to feel as if they are dead inside.
When you are mad, you make other people mad
The smart people would stay away from you for one big reason. Your anger without a doubt would make them angry too.
Just like happiness, sadness, and disappointment, anger is just an emotion. And because it is just an emotion, it is easily transferred from one person to another. That is just the way that emotions work, emotions are contagious.
This means that if I know you are angry, and I go around you for just five minutes, I run the risk of having my entire day messed up. How smart a person am I to go where you are, knowing what is likely to happen?
Angry people can destroy a childs entire life
You might know by now that children learn the actions of angry people in a very short amount of time.
As your child watches you and discovers how to act angry the way you do, his life becomes that much more complicated. The reason it is complicated is because he unlearns how to act his behavior will only become worse.
What you are going to get is a little person who becomes an adult that is likely to see every problem that people with uncontrolled anger see. There will be a difference with his problems though. His problems are likely to come while he is still young. Which would also mean that during his adult life his anger would affect him more, more than it did for the person he learned to be angry from.
Stop it dont let it happen anymore. Control your anger. The anger management classes you get here will see you over the hard parts of getting your anger under control. - 30535
Your anger hurts the people around you this is how
They need to keep their distance from you...
There are people who are concerned about you. At least most of you that is.
There is a problem. Believe it or not, there are people who love and would like to be around you. These people will think that you are someone special. However, they stay away to protect themselves from you. The thing is, you are capable of harming them, or you may just be an anti social person. And because of this they stay away for their own safety and emotional strength.
Your anger can cause the people who care about you to feel as if they are dead inside.
When you are mad, you make other people mad
The smart people would stay away from you for one big reason. Your anger without a doubt would make them angry too.
Just like happiness, sadness, and disappointment, anger is just an emotion. And because it is just an emotion, it is easily transferred from one person to another. That is just the way that emotions work, emotions are contagious.
This means that if I know you are angry, and I go around you for just five minutes, I run the risk of having my entire day messed up. How smart a person am I to go where you are, knowing what is likely to happen?
Angry people can destroy a childs entire life
You might know by now that children learn the actions of angry people in a very short amount of time.
As your child watches you and discovers how to act angry the way you do, his life becomes that much more complicated. The reason it is complicated is because he unlearns how to act his behavior will only become worse.
What you are going to get is a little person who becomes an adult that is likely to see every problem that people with uncontrolled anger see. There will be a difference with his problems though. His problems are likely to come while he is still young. Which would also mean that during his adult life his anger would affect him more, more than it did for the person he learned to be angry from.
Stop it dont let it happen anymore. Control your anger. The anger management classes you get here will see you over the hard parts of getting your anger under control. - 30535
About the Author:
Broyde McDonald gives information that helps you succeed at your anger management effort. Find out more about anger management classes and how to control anger with his famous free anger management e-book.
